So after having being typecasted as a funny human being, who just ignores the important aspects of life...here I come to prove them wrong (well...atleast I can make an attempt) and would try to decipher the emotion called LOVE. Here we will not talk about the love for family coz I have never had doubts about that and can't really see it from ann unbiased point of view. So we will talk about the love for the opposite sex. I have always wondered that what is love and how does one get to know that he/she is in love and also that the the subject of emotion is the ONE.
After doing a lot of introspection and retrospection and all kinds of possible inspections, I realised that Love is nothing but a state of mind...a thought...!!! It is possible to fall in and out of love numerous times just by conditioning ones mind. If you think you are in love then so you are and vice versa. I think a person can fall in love in the morning and come out of it by the evening by merely concentrating on the thoughts. Some people might call it infatuation but I beg to differ. I think infatuation is a continuous event and focussing on infatuation leads to the bug called love. And focus is nothing bet telling yourself that you love the person. The most beautiful of the girl can fall (or rise for him as one of my friends say)for a not at all good looking guy and vice versa by just repeating the thought to oneself.
I also think people don't fall in love, they like the idea of being in love. This theory justifies love through letters (in ancient times) and love on internet (in technological driven society like today's). Or else how can somebody explain feelings for a person without meeting him/her in person. But the idea itself is so interesting and captivating that people don't want to come out of it. There is nothing good or bad about it. I have just tried to explain the backend process for love. I think its a positive thought and do believe in this thought.
P.S: These thoughts come to me when I try to paint everything in either black or white. Life is colorful otherwise.
